Churches And Wedding Wahala. What Is Your Take On This?

She she had been in this relationship for one year, he proposed, everything followed to their traditional marriage last months.

But his church says they can't live together until the white wedding is done. He is not buoyant or ready for
a white wedding now but has carried out all rights both legal and traditional as they both agreed. what should they do?

The question now is, at what point is marriage recognized and honoured?

Is it at the point of...
(A) agreement between both spouse?

(B) Introduction (both families meeting and knowing each other)?

(C) Traditional Marriage?

(D) Court Marriage? Or the mighty

(E) White Wedding?

For me i think these churches complicates issues.

please i need sincere judgments and opinion, no insults or name calling.
We are all here to learn.