http://www.kriscamdi.com/2014/12/i-dated-my-
girlfriend-not-knowing-she.html
This may sound crazy but i am seriously not
myself right now. If i mention my name, you
might be shocked because i am a bit popular, i
stay in ajah lagos state and i am just 24years. i
dont know where to start right now and i wouldnt
want to bore you with my problem but i believe it
is or has happened to alot of guys out there.
Ok, i met this girl back then in school and when
she got a direct entry into my department, Gosh
she was too pretty to be single but when we got
talking she mentioned that she had no boyfriend.
Although i was glad but still scared if i could
manage and also maintain such a girl. You guys
would agree with me that most boys oo, guys oo,
men oo are maintainers when it comes to having
a girl friend or even a wife, (if na lie oya prove
me wrong).
Now as time went on, we got fond of each other
and i believe the love started growing, but it was
official that we where dating in our final year and
seriously i felt i had found my soul-mate not
knowing it was my soulmate hair cream i just
found...lol. But nevertheless we where really
good till we left school and went four our NYSC
in lagos, we worked it sha..
While in camp, i noticed some strange
behaviours and some strange atitude which she
pulled up but i felt it was just one of those girly
stuff. One day wen we went to maami market to
eat, i noticed a ring on her hand and asked her
when she got the ring, but she said it was jus a
ring she saw at home and liked it. i wondered
how a girl would just like an engagement ring.
But in my usual way i ignored it and we
continued gisting, but believe me that its not
something you should just ignore, because i
remember i once saw that ring back then in
school when i went to visit her and asked her
also and she said a friend of hers forgot it in her
room. Now this was what got me thinking.
When i confronted her she started their usual cry
and lectures of how it seems i don't trust her
and how i was doubting her love for me. It really
got to me though but as a guy, there are some
precautions which we all need to take.
Now long story short, i went to visit her one day
and saw some men in her house, it was obvious
that the came to seek her hands in marriage, i
called her aside and asked and to my greatest
surprice she said to me and i quot "that man
sitting by that end is my fiance".. For the first
time in my life i fainted and woke up and still
fainted again because it was like i was
dreaming.
i was taken to a room where i had cold
compress and when i regained, i asked her the
Big question...WHY ME?
And then she told me that she was engaged to
this guy like 6months before she got into my
school but he traveled out for his professional
course and he is ready to marry her now, and
above all she Loves him alot.
But i wondered what we where doing all the
while.
My problem now is, i have told my parents about
her and my mum loves her so much and my dad
can't wait to be a father inlaw and above all I
LOVE HER like mad...
am so confused right now...what do i do?
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