For the past 2years .My husband nags
about every little thing this days.He picks
on anything I say. To the extent of me not
being too free to discuss issues or normal
conversations as husband and wife
anymore. It all started like a joke.
sometimes the thoughts that always
comes to my mind is men and their
stressful moment,i will just allow him to
be. But right now the whole thing is
making me go gaga.To put pictures of my
friends like celebrating their birthdays or
Wedding Anniversary with then via what's
up or BB is a case. My own picture, OMG!
We may experience house of commotion that
day.If I makes his breakfast with toast bread he
would say the bread is too cold. I should bring it
straight from the toaster and then to his
mouth.If u make it hot he would be like do u
want to kill me before my time.If we go outing
with other families and a conversation is raised
I dare not contribute.if I do when we get home
wahala.He will be like are u the only woman
there must u show them that ur educated or
exposed.I hardly talks back at him when ever
he's nagging or should I say shouting?If i do,the
next call I would get that day or next is my
parent's calls from different angles even from
my younger sister sometimes,telling them how I
have been maltreating him,even cries at the
process while complaining.Can u imagine that!
Sometimes I will be like hun! some men
sha....LOL...
Am shading tears at this moment .U know why?I
love my kids so much that I can't even imagine
my life without them by doing something so
drastic that we all might leave to regret.when I
try to seat him down and talk some senses into
him,he keeps telling me he's facing a lot of
pressure from his business.But what I doesn't
seems to understand is when I complained to 2
people I believed he's a bit close to, because
he's not the type that hangs out with men
rather with women or should I say small small
girls. He doesn't keep friends.He's always on his
own but never at home.They were surprised
hearing such from me.They Will start telling me
how he talks so much about me how I
reorganized his business since I started working
with him. He stopped me from my previous
business.Because he wants me too close to
him, how I takes very good care of the children
despite his absence etc.My dad and my
husband's elder brother keeps telling me that
my husband they know can't do without me.One
thing I should known is that he's too jealous to
a fault and sometimes it might be complex.That
he's scared of facing me whenever we have
issues that he always thinks he might lose me
on the process that's why he keeps coming to
them whenever I try to talk back at him he
believes they are the people I respect so
much.And yet at my presence he never believes
I can do anything,infact he makes me feel that
am useless most times.But in all he does not
hit me,he can only shout and nags.
I just decided to share this basic ones with
other married women and men out there.I
seriously wants to know if am the only one
experiencing this.Because am really losing my
mind.Thanks.
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