TRUTH ABOUT CHEATING

The issue of cheating on a loved one is at
its peak, hurting people is just criminal and
kills them slowly, this time of the year is
usually what I call cheating time because,
one we are in a season of showoff all you
have accomplished for the year, be you
married, single or what ever class you
belong.
The truth is that everyone must blame
someone for the wrongs happening to
them, but are we really looking at the right
source? I would try and break it down as
much as I can. The first gender I wanna
tackle is the male gender, single and
married.
The truth about cheating is that is a habit,
and everyone knows habits are things you
have done often over a long time, as a
young single man, you found pleasure in
going in and out of relationships because
getting out was a cool way of avoiding the
problems you encountered in your
relationship, this ultimately meant you also
kept sleeping with different women and
hence you already picked up a habit,
unknowingly!
Soon you began to do two or more relationships
at once, instead of learning how to groom a
relationship and cherish it, you schooled yourself
on finding joy in screwing different women, soon
you grew into a man who wanted a wife and
kids which ultimately meant you wanted a
home, but you have never succeeded in being
with one woman or surviving hard times in a
relationship, you didn't learn how effective
communication could fix issues before they
become serious problems, your way of getting
over issues was being with someone else.
Getting married doesn't automatically
change your habits. You should mould your
character before Marriage. Now you are
married, with a wife and kids, of course
you have been cheating on her the minute
she got pregnant or as soon she started to
have stretch marks and added weight, she
can't do all she used to do to rock your
bed, because your focus as always been
on sex, you no longer see any reason to
communicate with her and tell her what u
fink, BOTH OF YOU, can do to better your
sex life.
You will rather resort to your usual way of doing
things, "get on the next available flight leading
to no where"
Your problem dear married randy men isn't
your wife, your problem has been you, you
have lacked character from a young age,
you never had time to know what was
required of you in a relationship, there is a
thousand things to learn in a relationship,
that's why you are allowed to date before
you get married, you don't learn
communication by jumping around, you
don't learn how to be satisfied with what
you have by not adding value to it, you
don't learn to adapt to the changes that
comes with what you have, if you never
really spend time understanding how to
adapt to the changes and maximize it, if
you never been through a good change
before, how do you find strength in going
through a new one?
Forget the single girl out there, you made a vow
to your wife! Fear God, be a man and keep it. if
you are in a relationship, stay there! Make it
work, learn, grow, don't jump around looking for
the easy way out, because you will discover
that over time you have not grown in intra-
personal relationships. so when you get married
tomorrow when your wife no longer has all the
energy for your always eager manhood, you
would give her your company rather than your
absence, because the reason she lost her
shape, her firm breast, the reason she is no
longer as good as she used to be is all because
of YOU.
Secondly young men you must strive to
fear God, no one likes to hear this part,
there is a popular saying, it is hard to
change from what you are used to doing,
thou shall not commit fornication! It
sounds difficult and silly but check out the
adverse effect it would have on your
tomorrow! If the woman you will get
married to tomorrow is your first sexual
encounter how would u then learn cheating
at old age? How would you know that if
your wife who is no longer a little girl who
has sex with you all the time just to keep
you, doesn't have such time anymore
because she now has ALOT to take care
of, that when she doesn't give it to you,
there is a lazy girl out there waiting for a
few thousands in exchange for her pride?
Men and young boys we seriously need to work
on our character and relationship with God. We
make women fight and hate themselves,
because we are a not grown character wise, we
make it look like these women are not good
enough! You enjoy watching them fight over
you? It isn't because you are special its
because they don't really know who you are and
what they should want!
Fornication creates the habit of always wanting
sex, sex creates the urge to always want to
blind give so as to avoid any resistance from
the woman, that habit gives birth to not having
enough....that habit has given birth to who you
are now! A RANDY SERIAL CHEATING GROWN
KID!