Meet the 'free-sperm donors' who have actual sex with strangers desperate to conceive by 'natural insemination
As sperm bank prices increase, women are now
turning directly to men, who are free-sperm
donors - who offer the traditional insemination,
meaning actual sex...to impregnate prospective
mums.
From UK Daily Mail
'Joe' is married, has three teenage
children, is a successful internet
entrepreneur and when he can, jets off
around the country to have sex with
women in secret as a 'free sperm donor'.
Though he is unwilling to reveal his true
identity for fear of his wife finding out, Joe
describes his home life as 'Clark Kent' and
revels in his 'Superman' style alter-ego,
offering his services to women through
'natural insemination'.
Estimating that he has fathered more than
30 children through his seven-year 'career',
Joe is part of a small but growing trend online
for women to cut through the red-tape and cost
of traditional sperm banks to become pregnant.
Offering their services on the Internet for free,
donors are contacted by women who want to
become mothers 'the natural way', believing that
having sexual intercourse is the most efficient
method to conceive.
After meeting online and going through a vetting
process, Joe will arrange either to ship his
sperm for a more traditional artificial
insemination, or will arrange to fly to see the
women and donate 'directly' through sex.
Talking to ABC News' 20/20, Joe said he has
slept with more than 100 women as a free
sperm donor, but claims he is discerning.
'I'm not having intercourse with these women
when there's no chance of pregnancy,' said Joe
to ABC News, without explaining exactly how he
would know that.
Confirming that his wife and children are
clueless about his double life, Joe says that he
is fulfilling his own dreams through natural
insemination.
'I have a Clark Kent life. Then, I have the
Superman life,' Joe said to ABC News. 'People
might want to have millions of dollars in the
bank, and then, you know, some of us might
want to have dozens of children out there.
As well as helping a woman to have the child
she wants, Joe gets to add his progeny to the
world.
'I'm unable to have as many children as I want
in my relationship, and that would be
unreasonable to ask a woman to give birth to 30
children,' said Joe to ABC News.
Asked when he will stop, or what his goal is
through natural insemination, Joe seemed to
aim high.
'The World Health Organization said I can get up
to 2,500, but I don't think that will happen in my
lifetime. The other donors I know who have a
lot [of children] are up there around the 100
range. I'm standing on the shoulders of giants,'
said Joe to ABC News.
'I have the satisfaction of knowing that I have
another descendant out there,' Joe said. 'It's
not the road. It's how we get there, if we
actually get there.'
Another free sperm donor who did wish to be
identified was 23-year-old Kyle Gordy. (pictured
above)
He is currently working towards his master's
degree in accounting and like Joe, offers women
the chance to get pregnant by having sex with
him.
'I don't do any drugs. I don't smoke. I don't
drink. I don't drink caffeine. I eat only sperm-
friendly food: wheat, brown rice ... fruit and
vegetables,' said Gordy to 20/20.
During the course of his interview, Kyle was
very complimentary about his family tree and
genes.
'Right now I'm attending university. Both
siblings are engineers. The nuclear engineer is
my twin. My grandpa was a scientist,' said
Gordy.
On his Facebook page which advertises him as
a sperm donor, Gordy has posted pictures of
himself now and as a child along with his IQ.
Gordy told ABC News that he is not just looking
to have sex with women, but to genuinely help
them to have a child.
'I'm passing on my legacy and giving these
people kids,' said Gordy.
To date, Gordy has fathered one child and
another one of his recipients, 44-year-old
Serena, drove two hours to his home to be
naturally inseminated.
Serena, whose identity has been concealed by
20/20 said that she has longed for a child.
'Always, since I was a very young child, and
sometimes career and life just gets in the way,'
the insurance broker told 20/20. 'Then oops, I'm
38. Oops, I'm 40.'
Another important facet of free sperm donors is
simply that, no cost.
Serena said that she was unable to afford
sperm bank fees. Some charge upwards of
$1,000 for one vial.
She said that after searching the Internet for
alternatives, she settled on free sperm donors
and natural insemination.
'I felt that there's maybe no other alternative for
me. My clock is obviously ticking loud and
louder every day,' she said to 20/20.
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